Happiness Is An Achievement
Happiness is not dependent on physical objects.These can just give you physical comfort Happiness is a feeling and is our internal Creation and can be created irrespective of external comforts.
We use the objects as a stimulus to create a response, but the response is our choice.Different people create different responses, using the same stimulus.Happiness is a process and can be achieved while doing any task or assignment.
If we believe that happiness is after achieving, then we create stress, anger and fear while achieving and thus do not experience happiness Before I take the responsibility of those around me, I need to take responsibility of my own thinking and feeling.
When I am happy and take care of others, then they will be happy. Stress is a pain, which comes to tell me there is something I need to change. Stress has an impact on our physical and emotional Wellbeing, and hence any amount of stress is damagingTargets, Pressures, Deadlines, Exams are natural but Stress is our CHOICE.
My first responsibility in any situation is to first take charge of my state of mind because that is the only thing which is in my control.Our belief systems decide our way of living we need to experiment what we are learning order to change our old belief systems.
I don’t want peace, but I AM PEACE. Now will be at peace and do things outside.Try a new belief system, and a Peaceful Being now experiments with it, When We experience the result, and it is the truth.Every person I meet every act I do, I will do it with awareness – I am a Peaceful Being
Happiness is not dependent on people. No one can make me happy and I can’t make others happy, till we want to do it for ourselves.No one is responsible for my hurt, pain, fear or anger; it is my own creation in response to their behaviour.
My responses to people need to be based – on my personality, not based on the behavior of others.The Way we think and behave is not for other people, but first for ourselves, because we are the first ones to experience it.Let’s take charge of our mind, instead of trying to control others and expecting that if they change then my mind will be in control.
Let us choose how We Want to think, feel and be in every relationship. We have always tried to make others happy because we thought when they are happy I will be happy.When we do something for others, let us understand that we choose to do it because they matter to us, and so we are doing it for ourselves.