This Is Why Parent Child Relationship Is So Famous! – A Small Guide On Parent Child Relationship






Parent-Child Relationship

As we have earlier that in Parent-Child relationship the child is the heart of the parent. The Parent irrespective of the pains outside does not want her child to get into pain or hurt. The love for the child cannot vanish under any circumstances, it’s a pure love and no amount of time can make it dry.

But now the child has grown up and now he sees a big wide world outside and wants to go out and venture his interest, he wants to go out and look for a job, the mother thinks she has been ignored know but the love is always there. She thinks that her child does not want me, he doesn’t listen to me, and he has his own choice.






As We all know that we are the children of God and whatever the deeds we have done in our day-to-day activities we accept in front of GOD before we sleep and we definitely hope that he will forgive and enhance our strength.

As far as Mother is concerned she has to do the same thing here as the child does mistakes and thinks differently he should be forgiven by the mother no matter if she gets ignored or hurt. This is the real mother and this is the love of the mother.

Any Circumstance where the child experiences that he has not been taken care, or he has not been loved totally will make the child fear of telling anything to the mother. If he has failed in the exam the child has the greatest fear to tell his mother because he doesn’t expect that the mother will take it easy and because of this heavy fear some of the children take the extreme step to suicide. They don’t have the courage to face the mother. It may also be because the mother has very high expectations from his child and now he has failed these thinks bother and inculcate fear in the child and he can’t sustain.

Parent and Child

The mother should be a powerhouse for her children whenever she thinks that the child is becoming low or in fear, she should never scold. She should accept the child in any situation, this is the real mother but should also guide him whenever he is wrong. The Powerhouse when it comes near the battery charging is done automatically. Here mother is the powerhouse of Love and when her love is poured on the child he not only recovers from the trauma but also gets enough strength to take care of himself.

Understand Parenting Before You Regret – A Small Guide On Parenting






What is Parenting

Let’s begin again by searching the relationship in a different land and with a different journey in life, we will begin with a very beautiful relationship which is pure, eternal The parent and the Child relationship and which is known as Parenting

This relationship is perhaps the purest form of relation from years, but in today’s life Parenting has also been affected by our day to day life. So It becomes utmost important for us to know the fact today any relation gets broken within minutes.






Parenting starts when the soul just enters the womb when it is 4 months old and it is also affected by the surroundings, remembers physically he is just 4 months but the soul has traveled years together and no one can predict this.

The Soul has already gathered a lot of qualities from the past so we should be very careful how we should always give him pure and peaceful thoughts when it is in the womb itself. We should never think that he should just 4 months and how come it affects him but the soul does not have any age. It can take emotions irrespectively and whatever emotions we give it will receive.

As the Child grows to say around 2yrs his mind is developed up to 75% and by the age of 4, he is completely developed.





Parenting Styles

I remember in my childhood when we get hurt by a table which comes in between we hit the table to make the child happy. This is one of the Most adopted Parenting Styles, this means that it is the fault of the table and this is a very wrong belief system as we are saying that the hurt is got by outside world like the table, similarly this belief system is rooted from here itself and when we get hurt anytime we pinpoint the outside world for it and forget that we are the first cause of it.





Parenting With an Attachment.

So Parenting is a challenging job for all of us always look up to a child with an eye of a soul and this will make us feel detached from the vices like attachment.

Some say that how to get detached from the child, for example, the child gets hurt, immediately we rush to the hospital and do all sorts of medication, this is an attachment which is good but we should not become emotional and give negative energy to the child, this is important. Parenting with Attachment gives pain and hurt so be careful and the Hurt will cut down the energy.

Refreshing song

The Truth About Happiness Is About To Be Revealed – A Small Guide On Happiness






SEARCH FOR HAPPINESS

In our day to day life, there are a lot of dreams which are related to ourselves, families, children and carrier we try to achieve these dreams, every achievement gives us satisfaction and a feeling of happiness, As we go ahead in life there is a feeling that the happiness or satisfaction is reduced. Happiness has just come and then vanished and again I started Searching for happiness.






What Is Happiness

Let’s go another step and find what is happening, where can I get happiness, Can I get back the happiness, how can I be happy, can I know what words or feelings make me happy. Happiness is something which comes from outside or from any other relation or from any other achievement or it is within me.

I know how I get sad, I know how I get disturbed, and I also know which words bring stress and anger to me. But when I think of happiness it just comes and goes, what are the things which are related to happiness.





Pursuit Of Happiness

When we check our whole day is just a sequence of situations, some people talk in favor of me and some not so my happiness is determined by the situations and the people around me. But as time passed the percentage of happiness gone down and percentage of sadness has gone up. At the age of 35 excellent salary package, a good duplex house, 2 separate cars for both of us, children are doing good what more is required? Still, I feel that there is a void and I started thinking where is my happiness. Look for it where is actually available.

Happiness Definition 

But the point here is Situations are coming so fast that there is not time to think of happiness. I have to take the children to school, I have to make breakfast, take children’s tiffin’s, husbands lunch and for all this, I need to be physically fit otherwise It is difficult for me to do all these things at such a fast pace. We are more prone to our physical health and just ignored the emotional health. Physical health and Emotional health is a complete health package, we need to be emotionally fit to carry out the journey of life

one generation back my father never jogged, he never had to drink mineral water, he never had a separate diet, he never went to the gym but I am doing all these things because I had not taken care of my emotional health and we have chosen stress, anger as part of my life.





Is Relationship Still Relevant? Lets Explore






What is a Relationship?

A Relationship is defined as the exchange of energies but not words between people, energies travel faster than words and the work has already done by them but as we see words and actions in front of us we say that he is a good person because he talks nicely and politely and we can build a good relation.

What is a good Relationship?

A Mother and the Son is said to be the purest and good Relationship as in any circumstance mother cannot think negative for his child when he is a child or grown up. The energy is always positive for a child. We just can’t see any trace of negativity here.

Building a New Relationship

When it comes to building the new Relationship we have to be very much clear about our thoughts and should always speak the truth and abide by it. We should see a person as another soul and not a friend or boss. If in such a case it would be very easy to build relations because both of us in equal platforms means both of us are souls and there is no gap he is big and I am small, he has big house I have small house etc

Trust in relationship

Trust is the utmost factor in a Relationship and it the root of relation, we should trust a person without a single trace of doubt this will help the other person greatly and would like to be with you all the time.






Why are the Relationships Broken? 

In today’s life what has happened are we get angry easily and there is bitterness in any Relationship. Let’s try and figure out the relationships which are very important to us as the entire life revolves through various relations say it Blood Relation or relations outside like friends, why there is bitterness in relationship what has happened today. Whenever we think that we should build good relations with everyone we always get into trouble.

As we all know that today’s world hectic and right from we get up till night when we go to bed there are innumerable challenges and people around us and everybody is in a state of stress. These factors take a toll on any relationship and the relations don’t last long. Ending a Relation is very easy as it does not require anything just a small word that you are fit for nothing and that’s it.

How to be in Relationship

This is challenging in today’s environment take any relation and everybody requires respect, peace, appreciation, care, happiness.

Relationship is always linked with getting people always think what I got in this relation but we have to think what I should give in this relation to make it stronger. It is always giving which build relationships give love, peace, happiness and care and you enjoy the same because whatever you give you get it first and then the other person gets. The energy flows from you so you always want to give love, peace, happiness.





How to be in Relationship

Mothers say that we are thinking all positive thoughts for the child and love our baby but still why is he like this , a mother can never think negative for her child when it is in the womb, grown up and even when he older.

It is because the mothers today are loaded heavily with stress outside, inside and also with the boss if they are working and husbands and whoever comes in the relation. The whole lot of stress is passed on to the child when it is in the womb.

Every thought created by mother effects the child we may take lot of care from outside but when it comes to thought level they are passed faster than the words.

A relationship is defined as exchange of energy. When a baby is coming in our house it already has a relation that’s the reason it is coming again to clear its previous debts if any.

So when the baby is coming we should welcome him/her and always be in good mood, not only  the mother but the entire house should always give positive energy, so that the baby is emotionally strong.





The Story Behind This Life Will Haunt You Forever!






How Is Life

Last Week I met a person who was telling me that he with his family (mother, father, Wife and 5 yr. old son) were going to a Satang (Place where Scared Knowledge and Education) is organised and we all were happy on that day and suddenly the driver lost control and my wife, mother, and child expired and father and me had serious injuries. Life always gives us the opposite when we think of doing something good

Life is a Series of Events Just as a Film Scene by Scene

I came back home and thrown away all the photos of the sacred people and literally stampeded the photos with my foot. What I thought and what has happened to me, Why God has done to me like this, why God is so cruel to me. Everything that is happening is because of the will of God.






What Is Life All About

Let’s think for one minute that all this has happened because of God and the whole world is running because of him why God even if we think that it’s because of any person the world is running like this. Will somebody write there will be an earthquake and everybody in this area will be finished? So if the Almighty writes the destiny of all the individuals he will write it perfectly. Life is all about trying to live a life on terms defined by the Almighty, Life is all about remembering the Almighty.

Even as a father if we were asked to write the destiny of our child we just write it should be perfect, he should get the best education, he should get the best job, best family, and best luxury. So if people think that the destiny is written by God then he will definitely write the best destiny and equal destiny for everybody.

Best Quotes Of Life

But today nobody is perfect and nobody is equal. There is one more saying from the past that “whatever good I have done I will get it and whatever bad we have done we will get it”

So the Balance Sheet of Life is written by ourselves and not by God.





The Karma (The Deeds) what we do in our everyday life comes in front of us and it’s our destiny. No Power in this universe can change the Deeds what you have done (Good or bad), you will definitely experience that. Even God doesn’t come in between the Karma because if he helps one he should help all.

So the Universal Law is “Whatever we do comes back to us” in the form of Destiny. We have to settle our Karmic Accounts nobody can escape from it.

And now the answer is because the person who has lost his wife, child, mother in the accident has cleared his account as he has done a lot of bad things when he came to this world or even before coming to this world.

Like this, the accounts are settled and the souls which settle all the accounts moves forward and later merges with the almighty.

 






Anger Management – If You Can Give Something To The World Give Up Anger






Anger Management

We hear from our parents, teachers, and elders that you should control your anger but no one said that how to control it. Anger just rushes out of us and we don’t even know. There is just no time at that time and later we think that we think about it till then the anger has done its work by damaging the cells and raising the blood pressure. Anger Management is Vast Subject but we can Control our Anger as it is created by us only and not the other person. If we know this real truth and abide by it we will definitely control Anger.

Types Of Anger 

Here we have to think that the anger newer comes all of a sudden; the initial stage of anger is the irritation. We see many people doing many things near us which we don’t like but it’s their own choice we can’t force anyone to do as we like.






Ex when people have a habit of talking in the middle when we are talking to someone. This is the first sign of irritation. We have to tell that this is irritating me I would be grateful if you can avoid this.

Not only this there may be many things by which we irritated, we just have to tell them but we don’t tell this is the major problem and the irritation is left inside.

The Second Stage comes when we get Frustrated because we have not told anybody regarding irritation and we feel helpless at least at this stage we should tell that I am getting disturbed by your behavior. If you can avoid this it would be great.

The Third Stage comes when Frustration has gone and we have piled a ton of hurt and pain inside and a small thing comes in between the two people a large explosion (Anger) comes out. Other people who are around you also blame you because it’s just a small word and he got so angry this is not fair.





The Last Stage of Comes when the pain and Anger had been there for a long time and there is no choice for the person left to talk about it and it turns to the last stage and this is called “HATE”.

I Hate this person and will not talk to him for rest of my life; I just hate this person for whatever he does.

Irritation is the first stage and Hate is the Last Stage. Irritation should be cleared then and there so that there is minimal loss of energy.

Message To The World On Anger

I request the whole world that if you want to give something to the world before you leave this world is “GIVE UP YOUR ANGER” and you have done a great contribution to the whole world.

 






Master The Control Over Anger And Live Up To 100 yrs – A Small Guide On Anger






What Causes Anger?

Today many situations come in and a way that there is no choice for me but to get angry means anybody would have got anger. What Causes Anger? This is a deeply rooted belief system that I have no choice but to get angry, but the real fact is right from childhood in schools, colleges and parents no one has said that “ I have a choice” which means I can create my thoughts and feelings according to my choice. Similarly, I have a choice that I Will not get angry Today

Why Do We Get Angry?

I said to my driver to come at 9:00 Am Tomorrow as I had a Board Meeting, but the driver came at 09:30 Am and I was very angry? How can I say it’s ok because the meeting has already started? The point here is if we get angry before the Board Meeting how will you attend the meeting and second thing is you want to scold driver who is driving your car.

Anger is used as Motivator, Judgemental Anger

If I get angry at the driver and say that you will be removed anytime if you get late from now, and he will definitely come on time every day. Yes because he has the fear of removal. Here Anger is used to motivate people to get their work done.






Anger Management Therapy

One Simple thing when we get angry is I should know what are the basic causes of my Anger may be my belief Systems, Ego, people not accepting me etc. I always have a choice sometimes, when we are in good mood and somebody criticises or say negative comment on me, that time I don’t care I have a choice to be in good mood.Similarly, I have a choice to be in good mood all the time irrespective of whatever is happening around me.

 






Anger Addiction Is The Most Trending Thing Now? Let’s Explore






Anger Addiction

Today we have seen in all the verticals of life people use Anger just like a software tool to get the work done.

I called up cable operator and said “My TV is not working” he did not listen then I went to cable office and just shouted at him “You can’t-do simple work, You are fit for nothing, For what you all are taking the salaries, who is your MD, I Went inside the MD Room and also had some heated arguments with him and just look at it my Cable TV Problem got Fixed.I thought now I can use this Formula Everywhere. This is the Sign of Anger Addiction.






What is the reason for being Angry

I shouted at the Carpenter who came late for work at my home and was not doing his job properly and shouted at him, he got afraid the result was the work was done.

I Shouted at my Wife you don’t know what I am waiting for, you don’t know simple things, get me coffee and immediately Coffee was there.

Look everybody is in my Control, I am Great, Everybody is Scared of me.This is One of the reasons for being Angry

I started making heated arguments with my colleague in front of my superiors and look the things were done. I shouted at my Son or not coming First in Class and he was afraid and studied hard and got first in class and look things were done. Slowly Anger has become my nature, whenever I was silent people used to say “ I think today something happened to him”, Today he is not well, maybe today he did not have his breakfast I used to get such comments.





The Questions Comes if things are getting done in minutes why not is Angry?

Anger Disorder Symptoms – What Happens When we get Angry

When we are angry we are heated outside but internally we are becoming weak. The power of Soul to take any challenge is lost, I mean Soul becomes Weak. How many Times we get angry we become weak within so many times and our Blood Pressure takes a Toll if keeps on Fluctuating, We may welcome many diseases which are unknown so far. These are Anger Disorder Symptoms.

How To Deal With Anger And Frustration

The Main Point is When We become Weak From inside the power to gain control over others will be difficult. Initially, when I had the power I had done effortlessly, now I need to take care of myself first and because of my nature of getting Angry and everybody should listen to me I would find very difficult to control them outside I need more power now but I don’t have the power within. I feel helpless.

Reaction to Any Situation is Easy But remaining Quiet within is difficult.

 






Here’s What No One Tells You About Hurt – A Small Guide On Hurt






How to escape from getting hurt

There are several times in our daily life when we get hurt every now and then. We get hurt when we are ignored, we get hurt when someone says that you are fit for nothing you can’t do simple work and sometimes when we are idle also we start thinking about the past and create a lot of hurt.  Remember there is no escape from getting hurt.

What is hurt?

Hurt is an Emotional Disturbance created by us by taking the stimulus of the other person. I mean no one can hurt you without your permission. You create hurt for yourself by taking the stimulus (help) of words said by others we say because he said this way I got hurt, because of this I got hurt.







What to do When We are hurt?

I am deeply hurt by his comments, I can’t take this anymore, and how could he say something like this to me. I did everything for him and this is the way he should respond.

Now we keep on thinking and getting more hurt.

The Question comes

How Long I want to be in Hurt for one hour, one day, two days, one month or year and who is getting benefitted when we get hurt? We have to understand that Hurt just crumbles you into pieces it increases your blood pressure and welcomes many diseases. So the answer for this is we cannot afford getting hurt.






Why Do We Get Hurt?

Man has become so weak that he just breaks down for anything he doesn’t have to courage to take a single word against him because the soul has completely lost the power to withstand.

How to Empower the Soul?

The Integral part of the soul is happiness, purity, peace but we have totally forgotten this. In order to regain the lost power, we have to pray GOD (Supreme Soul) who is the powerhouse for all the souls and who is the ocean of peace, happiness, power, purity, and peace. We have to pray to GOD daily to give us some power in order to have a peaceful life.

 






Understand The Background Of Love Now – A Small Guide on how to interact






How to make person Comfortable when we talk 

As you have learnt that every thought we create has an effect on the cells of our body.  And we have seen that how Torture depletes energy, But if a person does a wrong thing I have Scold him.

Adding the Flavour Of Love

Instead of torturing him you have always done things wrong in the past, you will never be correct and all the negative stuff we can just say “In the Future how to rectify or clear this problem”. Always try to see that whatever you talk is not to the person meaning saying “You did this”, “You are Responsible” etc. but talk related to the work which has gone wrong by saying “How we can avoid Such errors in Future”, this would cultivate a positive response to the other person and we can also escape from criticism which intern hurts us.






So Words play a mediator role in building a relationship but where are the words coming from they are coming from the thoughts we create and where is the thought created, it is created in the soul.

Focus on the Thoughts and Words 

So all the things are cantered to Soul. A Positive and effective thought can change the aura and negative thought can ruin down the persons morale and the entire environment gets affected.

Keep Attention in our surroundings whatever is happening wrong we have to give feedback to the work done and with a flavour of love so that we empower the souls and also empowered.